As a trader, I have been navigating this money-related industry for nearly three years. My recent trips to Shenzhen and Wuhan have given me some new insights.

In this field, there are many talented individuals, each with their own uniqueness. However, after these years of experience, I have gradually understood a principle: do not easily trust others' evaluations, but rather judge a person's character through your own observations and interactions.

Sometimes, those who are described negatively by others may actually resonate with you when you truly engage with them. Conversely, those praised for their straightforward personality may be the ones who are best at disguising themselves. Therefore, we should not only listen to others' descriptions but also pay attention to a person's actual behavior.

To truly understand a person, the key is to see their fundamental character. Especially during times when they are at their lowest, angry, or under pressure, the nature they exhibit reveals the most basic and stable core of their personality. Some people's kindness and sense of responsibility are deeply rooted in their bones; even in the toughest times, they will not do anything that goes against their conscience. On the other hand, some people may appear straightforward and cheerful on the surface, but when faced with a crisis, they may choose to escape, belittle others, or even resort to unscrupulous means.

The sense of security in any relationship does not come from empty promises, but from the character of the person you can see and trust. As the ancient saying goes, 'You can tell a horse's strength from a long journey, and a person's heart over time.'

To truly understand a person, you can observe from the following aspects:
1. The performance in an unintended manner
2. Words and actions after drinking
3. Attitude towards money and temptation

Through these observations, we can truly see a person's essence and establish genuine and lasting relationships.